Our view maybe different but in the end we have the same goal. To love and be loved. How we love others may not be the way they want or need to be loved. HOW others love us may not be the way we need or wish to be loved.Even though our ultimate goal is

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What is happily ever after? What draws us to another to partner?Why do we gravitate toward similar people over and over again when we have cause to avoid them?Why does it feel so right when all the signs tell us otherwise?Why do others see ‘it’ before we do?It all begins here….Attraction is drawn by similarity,

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The Brilliance Phenomenon WithinWithin each person there exists an innate Brilliance, secretly acknowledged or openly celebrated.So what is Brilliance?For us, Brilliance is the innate commodity that every soul holds, a veiled quality awaiting regeneration, limited only by our willingness to accept and nurture it, buried beneath accumulated Soul Damage of many past lifetimes of experience

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Marriage is a contract that needs to be renegotiated often, as what we expected from it absolutely changes with the ups and downs that life presents. Holding the other to unrealistic expectations, made at a time when all we really knew of them, was that they fit into the illusion of marriage we held, is

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Unconditional Love.Crying children know the results of a world without unconditional love, they heave with fear, while others are creating change that sacrifices their truth, by commanding change to their existence rendering them powerless in the cradle they feel holds them safe.Striving for unconditional love is what leaves our soul’s existence in a state of

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“Give me patience!”What is it that we ask for when we throw our head back in exasperation and plead for help? What we expect and what we receive are often so different.Each of us has our daily tribulations small or large and find those around us to be tolerable or intolerable depending on our process

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“When new opportunity presents and is embarked upon without full consideration to the gravity it holds, the experience fails to enlist its true value.”  How many times do we engage with enthusiasm believing this is the right choice for me, believing ‘this is my destiny’ only to be left feeling discontent and unfulfilled, even after

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Consider the paradox and do not let the blessing pass you by.   What is the lesson?  – What is my potential? – What is the promise?Through the disharmonious entourage of emotion felt on impact of an affront or impasse we denigrate the insight the opportunity brings, distorting the divine prospects, offered and awaiting.When the barrage

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It’s amazing how easily life flows when we accept life’s flow with ease.    When we engage emotions such as blame, resentment, belligerence and frustration, futility is our reward. There is no concession for those of us who refuse to acknowledge our resistance to change.But when we embrace our activity with enthusiasm and gusto the

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What we feel as an affront often reveals a blessing.At least once a day we are affronted by another’s actions or reactions, which we feel are directed unfairly at us or the people who are important to us.This hits hard and fast, an involuntary reaction to the incongruence or validity of the affront, the action

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